Men seem to confuse the entire concept of being friends.
On one hand, every man knows that a relationship is great with a woman when they are lovers AND friends, but on the other hand putting the term zone at the end of friends makes friendship a dreaded interaction.
On one hand men understand the concept of not talking to strangers (let alone sleeping with them), but on the other hand being called a friend (a word better than a stranger) is a dreaded interaction.
On one hand men understand the notion of WANTING to call a woman a girl-FRIEND, but on the other hand a woman calling him friend without saying boy first is a dreaded interaction.
On one hand men understand the notion of a woman introducing them to her female friends as a friend because their vibe is new, but on the other hand calling him a friend without her female friends there is a dreaded interaction.
Putting the term zone at the end of friend got a lot of men paranoid and unreasonable. The psychology that is called the friendship zone got a lot of men wanting to get out of it instead of dwelling in it to work from within.
It is sensible and very reasonable to turn a stranger into a friend, which goes for women and men. Even one night stands has a level of interaction, a level of familarity, before it is engaged in. A man cannot overlook that the entire process of approaching a woman is to increase rapport and familarity all in hope that she no longer perceives him as a stranger.
When a woman FEELS she is getting to know a man then she feels COMFORTABLE to invite him out, go out with him, and free up herself to him. Most likely a lot of women want to be friends FIRST to assess a man before taking things further. This reveals that advancements from the term friends DEPENDS ON A MAN’S BEHAVIOUR. A man’s behaviour sets the pace from when he is perceived more than just ‘friends’, which is to be a man beyond being perceived as an attention source for her, which reveals that she is too accepting of him as an attention source.
Too much of anything is perceived as bad therefore if a woman perceives the man too much as an attention source, it would be unreasonable to her not to mess it up. IT IS UP TO THE MAN’S BEHAVIOUR. It is due to a man’s behaviour that makes a woman conclude that he is like a brother. It is due to the man’s behaviour that he stays a constant attention source without giving him any sexual gratification and while she sees or assesses other people. It is due to the man’s behaviour that DECREASES the probability and possibility of seeing him as nothing more beyond the level that she is comfortable with him with, although there are other levels to be comfortable in.
By realizing that the title friend eliminates the title stranger completely, it would be logical to sort after the title friend. No woman wants to be perceived as a whore so she’s not going to call a man a lover straight away, the term friend will do.
Being called a friend doesn’t mean nothing will ever happen (depending on your behaviour). It simply means she wants to take her time or wants to analyze if you are not pretending about who you say you are. This ultimately comes under time. The ‘friendship zone’ should be perceived as a TIME ZONE, as a zone used for women to assess men because truth be told, if she wanted nothing to do with a man, she wouldn’t bother put him in any zone, she wouldn’t consider friendship at all thereby keeping him a stranger.
Yet a lot of men dread this zone and some are in the so-called zone right now thinking how to get out of it or kicking themselves for being put in it. It is all psychological. Being put in the zone should put a smile on a man’s face, especially a man with strong game, because he is not only confident that how he behaves will change her deluded mindset to put him there in the first place, but that ALL HER DEFENCES ARE DOWN. Which means less or no resistance!
Some women don’t want to rush into relationships after relationships, and are willing to propose the concept of FRIENDS with benefits. For her to be confident to suggest this is a result of a man’s behaviour.
HOW A MAN BEHAVES WITHIN THE ZONE ALLOWS A WOMAN TO REALIZE THAT IT WAS A MISTAKE TO PUT HIM IN THERE.
IT ALLOWS A WOMAN TO REALIZE THAT THE MAN IS ALL SHE NEEDS.
IT ALLOWS A MAN TO GET HER EASILY EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED.
Knowing this, the zone can be perceived as a great place to be in, it is a man’s one foot in the door before she is totally hooked to him (depending on how he behaves), and the beauty of it all is that it would have been done by her own hands. She’s the one that puts the man there. Men with strong game stay grinning knowing that she got herself got.
Brotherhood Of The Game is a male empowerment group, created to better the interaction between women and men by motivating men to be men, and keeping loyalty in the Game. The Game is life and Life is a Game. Love, business, success, failures, lessons, and events are all part of life, they are all part of the Game, and playing it involves strategy, strength, and appreciation in being yourself (called Self-Love).
Quitting on yourself means getting played. To live, to make effective moves, to counteract moves, you have to read the Game as you play it. Play or be Played is the undertone of the Game (of life).